Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
Finding Emily is a movie with a thesis about love, literally. Someone in it spends the runtime writing one, and her hypothesis is that romance is a kind of madness, a delusion we talk ourselves into. The movie then cheerfully devotes two hours to proving it: a man methodically interviewing an entire campus’s worth of Emilys to find one he met once is not, clinically speaking, well. And yet, for its first half, the madness is contagious, a blissful delirium, a little slice of romcom heaven.
The setup is a fun high concept. Owen (Spike Fearn) runs sound at the student union bar of the fictional Manchester City University and has a great night out with a girl who gives him her first name, Emily (Sadie Soverall), and a phone number with a typo in it. So begins a Cinderella quest: scour every Emily on campus until one fits the slipper. The first false Emily he bumps into is Emily Raine (Angourie Rice), the psychology student writing that thesis, and she offers to help him find his true Emily, never mentioning he’s now her research subject. You can probably guess 90% of the story from that alone.

The film quickly finds a groove doing what a romcom ought to do: exploring the chemistry between its characters, the ways they’re similar, and, more importantly, the ways they’re different and can grow from each other: Owen tempering his romanticism with reality, and Emily vice versa. All of it flows naturally from the premise and from what Fearn and Rice offer, two organically lovable performers in easy sync.
Then the second half arrives, and the film ramps its high concept higher and higher until it’s juggling satire of social media, cancel culture, and toxic masculinity, pushing its story beats to farce levels of misunderstanding and contrivance. It’s not a total trainwreck, but it’s a mismatch between story and tone. None of it works as well as the core romantic comedy material, and the film thankfully never abandons the fundamentals: the romance and the comedy between Owen and Emily. But I can’t help but wonder if we were robbed of an upper-tier romcom if first-time feature director Alicia MacDonald and writer Rachel Hirons had trimmed the plotting escalations and given their couple some space to breathe.
My favorite aspect of the film is the color and texture of its Englishness. Fearn’s Manchester accent is so thick that it’s sometimes hard to make out what he’s saying, like he’s a lost Gallagher brother, and yet it registers as endearing and scruffy rather than alienating. I was grateful, too, that Rice plays unabashedly American without the whole affair devolving into a fish-out-of-water story. (Sometimes when movies are too British it can feel like I’m visiting an alternate dimension where they speak my language but don’t really speak my language; see: Rye Lane.) It’s a really nice flavor.

Many of the film’s instincts are excellent. It uses music very well: “Blue Monday,” “Bad Guy,” “Call Me Maybe,” and more all enhance key scenes and turning points without abusing needle drops as a shortcut for emotional engagement the way some films do (see: Voicemails for Isabelle). There’s something comforting about a Manchester movie leaning on New Order. The pace never lulls too badly even with a runtime creeping toward two hours, and the tone is seductively congenial, which is why I find the second-half plotting and satire swings so baffling.
The casting is strong all around. Rice is gradually becoming a destination-programming actress for me whenever she’s a lead; when I saw Honor Society I hoped it portended her rising stardom, and here we are. (I guess I really do need to finally watch the Mean Girls musical.) She has a natural, disarming warmth and keeps choosing flawed, prickly characters that push against her natural demeanor; the net effect reads as witty and complex rather than bland.
The real breakout, though, is Fearn, who previously had a small role in Aftersun. He does a little bit of everything here, and all of it well: mope romantically, deliver a punchline, execute some physical comedy, deliver a sincere monologue, bat goo goo eyes. He sings once or twice and has rapport with everyone else in the cast. He’s one to watch; it’s basically impossible not to smile when he’s on screen.

If the story is overstuffed, so is the cast. Both Owen and Emily drag around an orbit of uninteresting friends and companions, several of whom get their own subplots, and it’s a little too much commotion for too little payoff. My favorite of the bunch is Professor Westlake (Prasanna Puwanarajah), Emily’s dead-eyed and depressed thesis supervisor, doing an impression of John Oliver’s professor from Community. Minnie Driver has a small turn as a college dean, and I’m not objecting to that, either.
As the film escalated through the satirical beats of its too-long back half, I felt my goodwill start to wane, but it never fully drained. Finding Emily is a real charmer, a pleasing and rewarding romantic comedy built on two wonderful leads, and that’s no small achievement: It’s enough to place it among the year’s more purely enjoyable films. Her thesis was right all along: romance is a delusion we talk ourselves into. I talked myself into this one, and gladly.
Is It Good?
Good (5/8)
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